What Is Love

What is love?

Love is a affection towards other people, objects or beings. Based on the intensity and the target of feeling.

How live without love and be loved? But beware! Not all that glitters gold and appearances are deceiving. In love, little is content with not knowing what love is.

There are many ways Love: friendship, love between parents and children, love of neighbor the mutual love of a man and a woman united in marriage, love that invades us to achieve the highest good...

To find true love between a man and a woman, we must first ask why we are drawn to the other person:
Why interest or selfishness?
Why pleased I am to be with him or feel that to be together?
Why I feel for the other?

It is easy to see that a relationship based on these points is flawed because it tends to reduce the other to a mere object. For me, the other is an instrument and in fact I think only myself...

Truly love is to love the other for what it is. A deep love is, above all, feeling so drawn on the other you only want your happiness. No I love him so you can provide only by what it is. In a relationship, the two People can share feelings, pleasure or to help each other. But the basis of the relationship is the person beyond of their qualities or defects.

To my mind, love is the result of free choice: to-love the other, think the other in a free and determined. You can not truly love without sacrifice some of our freedom in favor of another. This decision must be reciprocal, in that otherwise may not be a real relationship: Want to bring joy to one who loves me contributes to my own happiness. This is love: to give free and each other.

Of course not always so easy. We are all affected by changes in mood, the monotony of everyday life, problems and our selfishness. Love is fragile ... "I'll love you still inside twenty years?, Holding out its flaws?, can eternal love? On misfortune and disease?

In fact, if our relationship is the result of free choice and mutual may hold. Love does not happen and that was it. The crush is not everything and that, however intense, is not more that a strong emotion that is not necessarily manifest a deep love.

Like any relationship personal, love builds and deepens with time as the confidence in one another grows. Love and care should be renewed every day actions and attitudes that show the privileged place to the other it occupies in our lives. The events, the penalties or the joys shared can contribute to strengthening the relationship, provided that beyond the difficulties, to rely increasingly with each other.

Love is not thus simple merging of two people but mutual gift of two free beings with all they are, body, heart and soul, and good our life is precious. The logic of love is to pursue a final delivery. Just a mutual decision, and lifetime allows humans to reach the absolute love can fill our heart.